The act of “deep-throating” involves relaxing your throat to the point where you can insert a penis (or your hands, or a toy) inside it. Blowjobs typically refer to stimulating the pen with your mouth and hands. With some experience and warm-up, the throat can open up to allow the penis to slide down into the throat.

Once you’ve had that kind of oral penetration, it’s difficult to think of anything else as being as gratifying. If you’re a skilled sword swallower without a gag reflex, deep-throating is incredibly simple and comfortable. The rest of us experience it as choking. The way a blow job works is that the blower puts as much of the penis as they can, occasionally the entire thing, in their mouth. As implied by the name, the penis is forced far into the throat, which occasionally results in nausea or even vomiting. In general, this method feels fantastic for the male but can be extremely uncomfortable for the woman (or man) delivering the head, like many other famous sex manoeuvres you see in movies.