It can be frightful to consider touching someone’s tongue with your own. What if you pushed it in too forcefully? When it’s inside, what do you do with it? Not to worry, though; although it might take you a few tries to get the hang of it, you’ll be a pro in no time. French kissing actually comes rather effortlessly. To give you a fast rundown, though, here are the steps you should take.

First, close your eyes and give me a kiss. Start by creating a little lip division and positioning your lips so they are virtually stacked on top of your partner’s.

Enjoy a little minute of mild kissing and licking after that. When you’re ready, gently and slowly introduce the tongue. Consider stroking their tongue and then gently moving it. Enjoy it a little bit. When she was french kissing, my buddy Zoe used to trace the letters of her name with her tongue. Whatever seems appropriate and good for you to do with it is all that matters.

Avoid sticking your tongue up there and letting it get to the point where you start to feel like a dog. Be delicate and empathetic. Make them yearn for more.

As you practise french kissing more, you’ll discover particular activities you enjoy. Maybe you prefer to play about with your tongue a little before you get into it. Alternatively, you enjoy running your tongue across their lips. You can do the same thing when you’re dancing: copy your partner. Check out their technique and give it a shot. Try adding your tongue if they’re using a lot of them. In light of this, be sure to let them know if they ever do something that makes you uncomfortable. However you want to french kiss, the most important thing is that it should feel pleasant.